You’ve been through it. I’ve been through it. There’s always some relationships that don’t work out, and it takes you forever to move on. No worries, it’s only normal.
That being said, I’ve learn some pointers on how to make things easier, that I’d like to share. This also means I have failed many times in a relationship, lol. Mind you, this works for both genders.
Firstly, and most important in my opinion is you need to get rid of her in your life. This includes deleting her off your facebook, whatsapp, instagram, twitter and anything that let’s you see what’s going on in her life. This doesn’t have to be permanent, and for sure you can add them back as friends later, but for the moment the last thing you need to see or read is that she is chilling with another
douchebag boy ass guy.
Secondly, go out with your buddies! Get Drunk! Go clubbing! Go work out! Be in a social setting with people that care about you. I find that having a boys night out really helps, as it gets your mind off of the things that don’t really matter anymore. So do it!
Now that you are single, it’s time to do things you never had the chance to do. Take that trip that you’ve always wanted to go on, pick up that hobby that you’ve always wanted to pick up but never had time, or catch up with a old friend that you haven’t spoken to in a while. All this will help take your mind off of her, and help you get on with your life.
Finally, just have fun and be positive. It may be hard at the moment, but trust me time will go on, and you will be okay and better than ever! Get over her man!